First Day of PreSchool

This morning, we sent our son off to preschool. He was so excited and couldn't stop talking about the playground. I had to remind him that he might have to hang out in the classroom some to learn a few things. He had no trouble kissing us goodbye and playing with his new friends.

 

 

 

p.s. This kid has an incredible mother. After dropping him off at school for the first time, she spent the initial two hours of her morning doing ministry and sacrificially impacting the lives of three other moms. Way to go! 

Happy Birthday Son!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I love my kids, but I need help!

As many of you know, Heidi and I became parents to a 3rd child over the summer. Words can not describe my emotions, thoughts, joys, and fears occurring simultaneously as Hudbud experienced life beyond the womb.

Today, I'm reminded that he won't always be a newborn. In fact, he turned one month old a couple days ago, and has already entered the realm of 3-6 month clothing. Furthermore, both of my other children have birthdays this month, and my own rolling over to 32 is but a few months away.

Simply stated, parenting ain't easy. There's much to worry about, much to be sorry for, and much that will not be revealed until it's too late to fix! On the other hand, there is much to celebrate, much to fondly remember, and much to look forward to!

With all that in mind, I wonder how the individualism of our suburban culture affects our parental abilities. In other words, how many of us are bearing the burdens of parenting in isolation secluded from the prayers, resources, hugs, suggestions, and support of others?

In our training with Mission Alive, the following motto is hammered into us domestic missionaries: "No one should church plant alone." Perhaps the same statement holds true for the parent. Whether there are two parents in the same household, two parents sharing responsibilities while living in separate households, or one parent attempting to shepherd their children, perhaps no one should parent alone. Our kids are gifts from the Lord, and gifts are meant to be shared. Maybe we need each other.

I had an hour-long conversation with two parents today: one with children long out of the house, and one with children in elementary school. We brainstormed ideas for connecting with local parents who may be carrying their parenting responsibilities by themselves.

At the beginning of our time together, we conversed introspectively discussing the following question: "As a parent, with what do you need immediate help?" Spawning from this question were sub-questions such as: "How might I discipline my children in productive and formative ways?" "What are the best ways to tackle homework?" "What do my children need in terms of nutrition and exercise?" "How can I encourage my child to spend more time playing outside and less time in front of the television?"

With these questions as primers to the pump, as a parent, with what do you need immediate help? How can I assist you in pursuing the help you desire?

Back to School

This week, Heidi and I sent our baby off to 3rd grade. I still remember her first day of preschool, and now we are only three years removed from middle school. I have to be honest...I'm a little nervous about third grade. I'm a little nervous, because I remember some of my own third grade experiences. Every morning, my friend Johnny and I would get to school a little early to hang out in the back of the classroom and listen to the Licensed To Ill album by the Beastie Boys on our teacher's tape player. I can still hear it: "Now, here's a little story I gots to tell..." Also, in third grade, I had my first little league basketball meltdown, and my first glimpse of a condom that a boy in my class named Alex brought to school. For an unrelated sidenote, my third grade teacher lived next door to Brian Bosworth...no kidding!

Anyway, as a result of all this, Heidi and I have had a couple "concern-sharing conversations" in terms of sending our daughter off to third grade. This has got me wondering: many of you have been watching your child or children head off to school each day this week...some of you for the very first time(s). Others of you work in professions that nurture, teach, and care for children before and after school. Would you chime in with your "back to school" celebrations, anticipations, and trepidations? Please post comments on any or all of them.

Here are some questions to get us started:
1) What excites you about the new school year?
2) What concerns you about the new school year?
3) How can we encourage our children as missionaries to their schools?
4) What funny stories could you tell from your own elementary school experiences?